Chloe M. Gooden: How to Beyonce' Your Single Life like a Boss

Okay, so I am sure if you have been alive for the past 2 days your timeline has been FLOODED with Beyonce'. It's crazy. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter.....it's insane. Though many people have a ton of opinions about what she did, I truly don't care (lol, just being honest). But what I will do is respect what she is doing and her amazing marketing team and her strong femininity. Though there may be much controversy about Beyonce, I do enjoy the confidence she exudes and gives other women. It's all about your perspective. As always, I look at everything with a twist. We can learn something from Beyonce. Yes, I can pull a lesson from anything! So here you go!

1. Get Your Girls in Formation
Your single. The first thing you think to do on weekends is mope, eat icecream, rent a redbox movie and sulk in your place all day because you don't have a man. No mam! Get your other single girlfriends together and go out! Enjoy your single season! Every season has blessings and there truly are many. You can go out without getting a babysitter. You can go out without wondering if your spouse is okay with it. You can sleep in the next morning as long as you like! This especially is important for V-Day. Enjoy showing love with your girlfriends and go out together. Nothing like celebrating with your main squeezes! Go out with your girls and slay! Never know, maybe you will meet the man of your dreams =) Even if you don't, still was an awesome night with your girls!

2. Don't Hold On to That Guy Just Because
Don't hold on to a relationship, or call a random guy, just to have someone give you attention and make you feel wanted. Push them allllllllllll the way to the Left! Especially not for V-day. It's is one day. It's only 24 hours! Don't put yourself in a situation just to not feel "left out" on one day. You will so regret it on the next day. That guy that never calls you ; DELTE. That guy that never texts you back; DELETE. That guy who swears you're the one for him but he won't commit; DELETE. That guy that hasn't taken any steps to have you, make sacrifices and still in a relationship with someone else....TRIPLE DELETE. Stop keeping yourself in situations you don't deserve.

3. Be Proud & Confident In Who You Are
Don't doubt your beauty nor worth based on if you have a man or not. Just because you don't have a man does NOT mean you aren't desirable. Sometimes it just isn't time yet. Sometimes God needs more time to work on us. Be proud of who you are , what you look like, and most of all, KNOW who God has made you. You are beautiful and it will be noticed by the right man. A man doesn't define your worth; God does. If you depend on a man to know you are beautiful and desirable, your worth for yourself will always be unstable. You have to know you are beautiful before anyone else tells you.

4. Take Care of You First
Many times we stay in relationships thinking about the other person. Even if he is treating you horribly, you still will stay in the relationships for them. You say things such as, "Oh, but he needs me. He is just having a hard time right now, " or "He doesn't mean it. He just doesn't have a good role model in his life and I'm the only person he can depend on," or "I know he doesn't do everything he should. But I know he loves me and will get better." Ladies, stop feeling sorry for these guys and look out for yourself. Are they thinking about you? Are they trying to help you in your life? Are they adding to your life or taking away? You have to look out for yourself. If you don't, who will?

5. Only Date Men that Support You and Don't Mind Letting You Have the Spotlight
If you notice, ever since Beyonce has been with Jay-Z her music is a bit more hood and she seems to be even more vocal about political issues. I am beyond aware that Jay-Z has a lot to do with that and is a major influence in these changes. Which is totally normal when you are one with someone. What I respect about this is Jay-Z and her work together , and many times, you see Jay-Z giving the music, props and credit to his wife and allowing her to get the spotlight for it. A real man will always take your gifts and talents and add MORE to you. He will think of ways to help you make it and also to help you grow in your talent. I have experienced this myself with my fiance. If a man really loves you, he will want to see you grow, shine and become the best you can be. He will take joy in that and not feel he is in competition with you. Take note. If a man isn't supporting you, move on to the next one.

*Disclaimer*

I am in NO WAY saying that Beyonce nor Jay-Z are the epitome of how we should be nor act. God and the Word are the epitome of examples. Nor do I care about the negativity, opinions or messages people feel Beyonce is portraying. Yes, I know all about the Illuminati mess that goes around, etc. But what I also know is that God has not called us to judge; He called us to love. Be able to see the good in any situation or person. Calm down. Have fun. Be able to give credit to others without feeling the need to put them down. So if you have any negative Beyonce' comments or outraged feelings, please go find a Beyonce Hate Page and express yourself. Chloe is all about love, positivity and growth. We all can learn something from each other. Peace =)

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