Single Awareness Day or Valentine's Day as they Call It!

Ladies, I know that the "DAY" is coming up this week. Many of you are dreading it and just hope it comes and goes as fast as possible. I know it's the hardest around this time because of the heart shaped candy, the flowers, the huge teddy bears, the commercials, the "I Love You" items are EVERYWHERE you look! Trust me, I feel your pain. Being single can be tough, and let alone there is even a holiday to remind you that you are single and with no potential mate in sight. Though you may feel this is a depressing moment, realize that you truly can find joy and peace during this time. Please know that during this holiday season the enemy will hit you hard with:


1. Depression
2. Anger
3. Anxiousness
4. Regret
5. Discontentment

He will do everything in his power to make you upset with God and your situation. The enemy will use ANYTHING to get you to turn away from God and pursue your OWN way. During this season let me forewarn you of some tricks the enemy will use so you won't fall into the trap. Here are some things to keep in mind to stay in tact for a holiday that will come and go as fast as the sin in you when you ask God for forgiveness.

1. Don't Become Desperate
          - Being desperate can come in many forms. Whether it's calling an ex-boyfriend you know isn't good for you or going to a club just to find someone who will show you attention. Whatever your "desperate" moment may be, don't fall into a situation just to have someone hold you, show you attention and make you feel wanted. It's not worth it. Catch yourself before you fall into the trap. Don't make a major decision you will regret for one day.

2. Don't Forget the God You Serve & His Love for You
          - During this moment you will start getting upset with God and feeling that He doesn't care about your situation, doesn't love you and doesn't understand what you are going through. That is a LIE. First of all, God said He would never leave nor forsake you. Also, the Word says that you can cast your cares on God and he WILL sustain you. It also reminds us that God came to this earth in human form, Jesus, therefore He DOES understand everything you are going through. This is the perfect time for you to cast all your cares on God. He does love you. He does care. He does understand. If you need contentment, peace and sustainability during this time , or anytime, call on your loving Father. He will answer.

3. Don't Take On Depression and Forsake the Joy of the Lord
           - It is in our nature to be sullen about this holiday and feel we have every right to feel all of the emotions I stated in the beginning of this blog. Don't think that because its "Single-Awareness" Day that you are unable to still express the fruits of the spirit God has placed in you.

Galations 5: 22-23

^"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law."

Still wake up each day with the Joy of the Lord. So what you are single? Awesome. So that means you can show love of Christ to anybody and everybody! I know personally for myself I have decided to show/express love to those around me. Friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, whoever is around me! I've decided to not be sullen because I am single, but be excited that it's an opportunity for me to show love to others! You will be surprised how loved you will feel, and how uplifted your spirit will be, when you give what you desire to be given to you!

1 Peter 4:8

"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."

Please know that I am truly here for you if you need encouragement, uplifting or prayer during this time. If you still are struggling with this week don't hesitate to email me at chloemgooden@yahoo.com! I truly will pray for you and give you a word of encouragement if needed!

God Bless! 

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