Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Interview with Inspiration for A Lifetime : Ladies Know Your Worth


This week I interviewed with Inspiration for A Lifetime to discuss
 Ladies Knowing Their Worth!
Listen in as we discuss Knowing Your Worth in Christ, Celibacy and Dating, Letting Christ Fill the Void and more! Was so awesome to be on Blog Talk Radio with Inspiration for a Lifetime! Such a blessing! Pray it truly Ministers! First 5 Minutes are music, so if not your thing, you can skip over!

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From the Interviewee, Desiree :

 "I have Chloe Gooden author of "Not Tonight: My Worth is Far Above Rubies" coming on to talk to the ladies about knowing worth. I am grateful to have her on the show and shed some insight on this important topic. So many young girls and women do not know their worth. For years I hated myself and saw myself way lower than how God created and sees me. Thank God for deliverance out of the years of a never ending black hole I found myself in due to compromising, being depressed, being angry, and all the things that led me to destruction. On my road to knowing my worth and drawing closer to God, this topic couldn't have come at a perfect time.
The way we dress, talk, think, who we date, the decisions we make, etc. all display how we truly see ourselves. Sometimes certain actions are confused with high self esteem or the thrill of enjoying life, but God expects more from the women he beautifully and wonderfully made. How can a lady know her worth? What situations should she avoid and which ones should be embrace? What does a woman walking in the flesh look like versus a woman walking in the spirit? It's not about what you feel you deserve or the pedestal of pride promoted in an individualistic society. It's about what God has in store for you and not settling for anything lower than that. Not self esteem, but God esteem. "

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Wednesday, April 2, 2014

5 Reasons Why Single Women Want A Man

Finding a man seems to be the main focus of a single woman. We aspire to have many things, but our FOCUS seems to be mostly on having a man pursue, love, and commit to us. Each day we hope a man will sweep us off our feet and our romantic fairytale begin! Just thinking about it makes us smile. Though there is nothing wrong with wanting companionship in our lives, sometimes our reasoning behind this desire can be wrong and sometimes idolized. Why?

 Because we think a man will.........

1.  Bring us Happiness.
2. Fill a Void.
3. Make us feel Accepted and Approved.
4. Cure Loneliness.
5. Heal Past Hurts & Broken Hearts. 

These are probably the most common 5 things women think will occur when they meet a man, but I am sure there are plenty more. There is something going on internally within us all that we think a man will fix, but in actuality, only God can fix it. God is the only person that can heal you, bring you joy, accept you, and will never leave you. But too often we look to a man to do this. This ultimately puts too much pressure on a man and you become dependent on him to keep you whole in these areas. But you can be whole in God before any man enters your life. To be honest with you, this is exactly what God desires. He wants you to be complete in HIM, so that when He brings a man into your life, you won't put him before your relationship with God.

God will....

1. Give you Joy that's everlasting.

1 Peter 1: 8-9
"Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy,  for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls."

 2. Fill any void in your life. Just simply ask Him.

Psalm 55:22
" Cast your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken."

God has...
3. Accepted  and approved you the minute you were formed in the womb.

Psalm 139: 13-14
"For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made..."

God is...

 4. ALWAYS with you. You are never alone.

Deuteronomy 31:6
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."

5. Your Healer. You can only be made whole and complete through Him.

Psalm 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."



"Don't pine for a man. Pine for more of God."