Wednesday, April 2, 2014

5 Reasons Why Single Women Want A Man

Finding a man seems to be the main focus of a single woman. We aspire to have many things, but our FOCUS seems to be mostly on having a man pursue, love, and commit to us. Each day we hope a man will sweep us off our feet and our romantic fairytale begin! Just thinking about it makes us smile. Though there is nothing wrong with wanting companionship in our lives, sometimes our reasoning behind this desire can be wrong and sometimes idolized. Why?

 Because we think a man will.........

1.  Bring us Happiness.
2. Fill a Void.
3. Make us feel Accepted and Approved.
4. Cure Loneliness.
5. Heal Past Hurts & Broken Hearts. 

These are probably the most common 5 things women think will occur when they meet a man, but I am sure there are plenty more. There is something going on internally within us all that we think a man will fix, but in actuality, only God can fix it. God is the only person that can heal you, bring you joy, accept you, and will never leave you. But too often we look to a man to do this. This ultimately puts too much pressure on a man and you become dependent on him to keep you whole in these areas. But you can be whole in God before any man enters your life. To be honest with you, this is exactly what God desires. He wants you to be complete in HIM, so that when He brings a man into your life, you won't put him before your relationship with God.

God will....

1. Give you Joy that's everlasting.

1 Peter 1: 8-9
"Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy,  for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls."

 2. Fill any void in your life. Just simply ask Him.

Psalm 55:22
" Cast your burden upon the LORD and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken."

God has...
3. Accepted  and approved you the minute you were formed in the womb.

Psalm 139: 13-14
"For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made..."

God is...

 4. ALWAYS with you. You are never alone.

Deuteronomy 31:6
"Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."

5. Your Healer. You can only be made whole and complete through Him.

Psalm 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."



"Don't pine for a man. Pine for more of God."




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